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Jan. 6th, 2017

Don't read fb if you want a quiet evening. I mentioned my old friend Alan had killed himself 2 weeks ago... well things just got ugly.
The cast:
Alan / old friend, then not so much but once a friend.
Kelly / his wife -once a friend
Laura / Kelly's sister- a friend
Noel / Kelly's sister - part of artist community I am in. Sort of friend? Acquaintance. Not anymore. Oh, in a relationship with an abusive Man who asked me out when they were apart for a bit & she had a restraining order against him (I said no & she does not know)

Noel just posted a message on fb saying Kelly murdered Alan. Laura freaked out and said delete this now. Noel kept going on & on saying Kelly was just using Alan for money & she was with her other lovers (they did have an open marriage which I do not personally get but that was their choice) & implying that Laura was in love with Alan (I do not believe that, she loved him, he was her bil whom she had known for 25 years) and .. it was awful. I finally told her that this was not an appropriate conversation for fb & she was hurting Laura.

1) Alan had a history of depression. While I was shocked this happened & everyone was, it was not unimaginable.& there were signs. There always are even if you do not see them until later.
2) Noel is mentally ill, Moreso than Alan was, & this is not the 1st time she has pulled a stunt like this but it is the worst.
3) Noel had been angsting all over fb about his death when I am pretty sure she was not speaking to either of them until he died. & I believe she threatened to kill them at one point when she was mad at them. Not that anyone believed her, they just believed that she was bat shit crazy.

Geez I do not really know what Kelly has been going thru -other than hell -but I have spoken to Laura who is devastated about Alan & now her own sister does this? Who the fuck accuses their sister of murder on fb?

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faunhaert
Jan. 7th, 2017 08:53 am (UTC)
wow

what a tangled mess
trashing your sister on the internet. Yuck!

sounds like she is getting back at the world
and using her as a punching bag.
it looks like
their childhood must have been messed up
judging by their later life choices .

wish the dead guy would talk to her in a dream
and tell her to stop being the bitch from hell.

this sounds like great fodder for a soap opera.
its convoluted enough.

hope you can feel well enough to rest.
Lupis sounds horrible
lorifury
Jan. 7th, 2017 03:19 pm (UTC)
I shouldn't be, but I'm always surprised at how awful and weird grief can make people behave. I can't even imagine what would motivate a person to accuse their sister of murder on FB. Jealousy? Just being unstable? No idea. It compounds a tragic loss.
bytara
Jan. 7th, 2017 03:38 pm (UTC)
What a nightmare. I am glad you said what you did.
meinoel
Jan. 8th, 2017 05:20 am (UTC)
Well today she has deleted it all & Laura posted something about how awful life feels right now. Which I get. Noel was probably drunk & she is not mentally stable. I think she may be the next to go - she had pancreatitis last year but still drinks & she was horribly jaundice last time I saw her - not good at all. She is about 40 only but you can only abuse your body so long.
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